In some instances the life and relationship, seem unable to agree or at least some things, that way the arguments and fights are a constant. Because of this situation the couple falls in deep...
Empathy in love relationships is the highest goal you can achieve. It means that one can feel what another one feels. Getting to one state of grace that is very difficult, but not impossible....
What can you do? It is difficult to give concrete advice. It is impossible to just say that you should forgive him, or that you do not need to forgive. It’s hard to say if you can do better if nothing is wrong, or that you should confront him with it.
Actually, you only after the phase of anger and sadness and long moments of meditation and reflections make the decision of whether or not to leave him. Do you feel that there is nothing in the relationship, then break up probably the way forward. But often do you and your partner through a lot together and built and there is still much potential in the relationship. Explain the advantages and disadvantages, the good and bad sides of your relationship on the scale and take a decision.
Is the fear to commit so great that it has become a habit for itself in no letting go, it seems the word amorexia (a contraction of amore (love) and anorexia) in place. Fearing very heart, deceived or abandoned, will be no relationship at all anymore. Often enough you see that in these cases the need for affection poured on friends or pets.
One of the most feared problems in a relationship is no sex. From both sides, it is a problem that should not be underestimated, because a decreased libido (the official term for it: no sex), the stability of the relationship at risk. Misunderstanding, resentment and frustration make their appearance when the partners are increasingly looking.