It is undoubtedly one of the most terrible moments in the life of a woman or a girl (or a man of course). We are not talking about jealousy, about the fear that he is cheating, or on vague suspicions. We’re talking about that terrible, final moment when you are confronted with it that your partner is doing illicit relation it another one.
Sometimes it is no different than the confirmation of suspicions (in itself bad enough), sometimes it all comes unexpectedly and the news reached without time to be prepared, like a whiplash. Anyway, eventually comes to the same thing and it often means a dramatic end of a relationship.
Guilt (get it neglected?) Mingle with revenge. An inferiority complex (she is prettier, younger?) Joins the strong desire to see her in the flesh, to confront the rival to enter. You will be overwhelmed by dozens, hundreds feelings. Jealousy, sadness, confusion, despair, panic and many more.
What to do? How do you act when you discover that your partner has something intimate or romantic with another woman? Pack your bags? Of course, that would be a solution. But many relationships and situations are not so clear and simple. Children, home, work. You can not just make short work of anything you over the years have built up.
What can you do? It is difficult to give concrete advice. It is impossible to just say that you should forgive him, or that you do not need to forgive. It’s hard to say if you can do better if nothing is wrong, or that you should confront him with it. Or you could believe his explanation and the mitigating circumstances which he claims for himself (if he admits to another) or that you have to believe his lies (as he denies). Difficult, too personal, too painful. Yet we will try to find a list of opinions to which the result of direct and indirect experiences. A list that you can rebuild as always with your own opinion about this topic and your experiences in this field.